Loving thoughts produce loving actions and loving actions produce loving feelings… Yeah, I know what you’re thinking, “that’s easier said than done.” And, while I get that, I think our relationships and marriages are worth the effort.
YUP! I’m just as guilty as you are and I’m probably even more stubborn. So when my wife and I have an argument, I want to shut down and harbor ill feelings. I want to hold grudges and make smart comments and then I realize I have to grow up. It’s in the times that I want to be the most stubborn that I’ve had to let go of the grudge and try to be more loving. There are 4 scenarios where being loving to your mate are probably the hardest, but you may find that you need to do it the most during these times. 4 Times You Might Feel Like Drop Kicking Your Spouse…but Here’s What to Do Instead