“You treat me like your secretary!” That’s what my wife said to me and I blew it off the first few times. She recently said it again but this time I stopped and really thought about it. The fact is that anything that involves logistics like making sure bills get paid, planning activities, and things making sure affairs are in order, I was pushing them off on her. Then, I realized that anything that involved too much cleaning or cooking, I started expecting her to handle that as well. Suddenly I realized that all of the things my mother used to do for me, I started expecting my wife and to do. GUT CHECK and Reality check. Men, please realize that YOUR WIFE IS NOT YOUR MOTHER! Fellas: Your Wife Is Not Your Mother!