WHO ARE YOU TRYING TO CONVINCE!? I ask this question because I am tired of seeing the facades. I am tired of seeing couples being PUBLIC happy but PRIVATE miserable. Sometimes I think to myself that if we just put as much effort into the perception we try to build about our relationships, as we put into the reality of our relationships then we would be so much happier.
Ok before anyone gets offended, let me first say that I am not judging you. I just want you to understand that having to “Fake Happy” is more draining than actually being it ever will be. The thing is, being happy in life and in love is an ACTIVE process and we actually have to do something in order to achieve it. Here are a few scenarios where “Faking Happy” is a lot harder than actually being happy! Why Your Mate Thinks You Are FAKE Happy! (Who’s Been Guilty of #3?)